For a female server getting hit on regularly is part of the job. Especially when waiting on a large group of guys. They tend to egg each other on. I get all of the classics. “Did you get a traffic ticket today? Cuz you got FINE written all over you!” or “Is your mother a [...]
Insecure female customers are a trip. You walk up to the table and you can tell which women expect you to avoid eye contact with their man at all times. Let me clue all of you jealous wives and girlfriends in on a little something. I didn’t take this job to meet men! Being on [...]
httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ky421VigSzs Marta Daniels ( http://www.howrc.com ) explains that the waitress doesn’t want your husband, she’s just being friendly per the job requirements.
As a server, you get pretty good at sizing people up. At times I fancy myself as a sort of Tableside Psychologist if you will. Am I handing out mental health advice to my customers? Occasionally- but only if they solicit it. You’d be surprised how often they do. We aren’t asked for pyschological help as often [...]
